As a London hotel owner, I’ve lost count of how many times guests have asked me, “Where can I get a proper afternoon tea experience?” It’s usually followed by, “You know, the real deal – not a tourist trap.” After 15 years of directing visitors to various venues across the city, I’ve learned that the perfect afternoon tea spot depends on what you’re looking for. Are you seeking the full pomp and circumstance of a classic British experience, or would you prefer something more intimate and unique? In this guide, I’ll share two of my favorite central London locations that I regularly recommend to my American guests. One is the epitome of traditional grandeur (and yes, sometimes the obvious choice is the right choice), while the other is a hidden gem that even many locals haven’t discovered yet. Both offer exceptional experiences, just in very different ways.

The Quintessential Classic: The Ritz London

Having lived in London for over a decade and sent hundreds of guests to afternoon tea experiences, I can confidently say that The Ritz is the gold standard. Yes, you’ll find it in every guidebook, but there’s a reason this Palm Court institution has maintained its reputation since 1906. Think of it as the British equivalent of having breakfast at Tiffany’s – it’s a bucket list experience that actually lives up to the hype.

The moment you step through the revolving doors, you’re transported to a world of Belle Époque splendor. The Palm Court’s ceiling gleams with gilded details, and the soft tinkling of china mingles with classical piano music. My American guests often tell me they feel like they’ve walked onto the set of “Downton Abbey,” and I can’t disagree. But unlike some historic venues that rest on their laurels, The Ritz maintains impeccable service standards that match its grand setting.

Let’s talk about the food, because that’s really what you’re here for. The tea selection is extensive (don’t be shy about asking the tea sommelier for recommendations), but the real stars are the finger sandwiches. The classic cucumber version is delightfully light, but my personal favorite is their Scottish smoked salmon with lemon butter. They’re all cut with geometric precision – trust me, I’ve watched many an American guest attempt to photograph the perfect angles! The scones arrive warm, accompanied by Cornish clotted cream and strawberry preserve. And just when you think you couldn’t possibly eat another bite, out comes the cake carriage. Pro tip: pace yourself, or ask for a takeaway box – there’s no shame in saving some treats for later.

What makes The Ritz particularly special is how they balance formality with warmth. While the dress code is strict (gentlemen, you’ll need that jacket and tie), the staff has mastered the art of making guests feel welcomed rather than intimidated. I’ve seen them gracefully guide first-timers through the proper tea-pouring etiquette without a hint of condescension. They’re especially patient with questions about British customs – something my American visitors greatly appreciate.

Hidden Gem: The Drawing Room at The Franklin

After years of walking past this elegant Knightsbridge townhouse hotel, I finally discovered what might be London’s best-kept afternoon tea secret. The Drawing Room at The Franklin offers everything I love about traditional afternoon tea, but with an intimate atmosphere that makes you feel like you’ve stumbled upon your sophisticated friend’s private salon. As a hotel owner myself, I particularly appreciate how they’ve managed to create an experience that feels both exclusive and wonderfully welcoming.

What sets The Franklin apart is its unique Italian influence, courtesy of Michelin-starred chef Alfredo Russo. While you’ll find all the traditional elements of an English afternoon tea, there’s a subtle Mediterranean twist that makes it special. The finger sandwiches are perfectly classic, but the pastries might include a delicate Italian amaretti or a pistachio-infused creation that would make any Florentine pastry chef proud. It’s this beautiful marriage of British tradition and Italian finesse that keeps my guests coming back – especially those who’ve “been there, done that” with London’s more famous tea venues. And here’s a little secret: unlike The Ritz or Claridge’s, you can usually snag a reservation here just a few days in advance, making it perfect for those last-minute London plans that my American visitors often need to accommodate.

The Drawing Room itself deserves special mention – it’s a masterclass in understated elegance. Designed by Anouska Hempel, the space features sophisticated grey velvet furnishings and floor-to-ceiling windows that flood the room with natural light. I often tell my photography-loving guests to request a window table – the soft afternoon light makes every picture look magazine-worthy, without the need for filters. The room only seats 30, which means you’ll never have to raise your voice to be heard or feel like you’re part of a tourist attraction. This is the kind of place where you can actually have a proper conversation while enjoying your tea, something that’s becoming increasingly rare in central London’s more popular venues.

Final Thoughts: Making Your Choice

While both The Ritz and The Franklin offer exceptional afternoon tea experiences, they cater to different types of London visits. If you’re seeking that once-in-a-lifetime, quintessentially British experience that you’ll be telling friends about for years to come, The Ritz is your answer. Yes, it’s more expensive and requires advance planning, but it’s the kind of memory that becomes a treasured travel story. On the other hand, if you’re looking for something more relaxed but equally sophisticated, or perhaps this isn’t your first London afternoon tea rodeo, The Franklin provides that perfect blend of tradition and intimacy.

As a final insider tip: whichever venue you choose, try to book your tea for around 3:00 PM. I know it sounds late for “afternoon” tea, but trust me on this. You’ll want to have a light breakfast and skip lunch entirely – these aren’t just snacks, they’re properly filling meals. And remember, there’s no “wrong” choice between these two venues. The best afternoon tea is the one where you feel comfortable enough to relax and soak in this beloved British tradition.

Have you experienced either of these venues? I’d love to hear about your afternoon tea adventures in the comments below. And if you’re still planning your London trip, feel free to reach out with any questions – helping visitors discover the perfect London experience is what I do best!